Family Man
I just added our family picture to the blog. As I looked at it, a silent realization came over me. I am a husband, I am a father, and I am a family man. Funny, it seems like only yesterday I was single and planning my next singles get together. So the question is; “How has this revelation changed me?” I can’t explain exactly. I just have to summarize it in bullets.
It’s joyous!
It’s fun!
It’s happy!
It’s scary
It’s sometimes overwhelming
It’s not about my needs so much
It’s being patient…VERY patient.
It’s self sacrificing
It's loving
It's caring
It's being tender
It's saying; "I'm sorry." a lot
It's saying; "I care..." a lot
It's listening a lot
It’s busy!
There are so many demands. Sometimes I just want to close my eyes and be a million miles away but then my kids or my wife will find me and then it’s off to the races again. There are so many ups and downs. Twists and turns. You just roll with the punches. Sometimes there is no time for second thought.
In the end…I wouldn’t trade a moment of it for anything. I love my family. I love my kids. I love my wife. I love my life
Sunday, January 13, 2008
Sunday, December 23, 2007
Burdens of Parenting
We have been very busy with kids and colds. First it was Evelyn who sticks just about anything in her mouth. Well she got this cold. It was really bad. After a few days it seemed to go away but then one of her eyes got red. It was something close to pink eye but not. Then the cold came back more aggressive than at first. We had to take her to the Dr. who prescribed antibiotics for the eye and mouth. That caused a real poop mess. By then mom got the cold and the red eye thingy. Z was miserable and tired. I had to pull a few night shifts to help out with nursing Silas. Then Silas gets a cold and he’s only two weeks old.
With all this going on, Evelyn got the worst diaper rash I had ever seen. There were some very red irregular bumps and mild superficial bleeding. She screamed something awful when we changed her. We were worried. We had been keeping her clean. Found out that it had something to do with the bowel discharge as a result of her taking the antibiotics. The whole thing cleared up in about a week but we had to be diligent in keeping her bottom dry and re-applying diaper rash cream.
By this time Z’s cold is in full swing and she is on antibiotics. To make matters worst, Silas’s cold that had seemed to be leaving was starting to get worst. He's only three and half weeks old at this point. He gets over the first hurdle then a relapse because of the cold from Evelyn and Z. Double jeopardy. We've had to elevate Silas’s mattress to help with his nose drainage, apply regular saline/bulb cleaning and we added a humidifier to both of the kid’s rooms.
Evelyn ended up taking two rounds of antibiotics to clear-up her cold. She is her same old funny self now. Poor Silas struggled through the cold without any medicine. He's such a fighter. Dr says for him to “tough it out.” As long as he's eating they don't prescribe medicine. So now Silas is six weeks old. He's finally breathing better and just about completely over the cold. Still a lingering cough occasionally that sounds horrible but we recognize that as the tail end of a bad cold.
Whew!!!
So I started consulting again but this time on the side. I kept my day job. I have very little time. Z has the kids all day so I take over after 5pm. She goes to the gym and I usually put Evelyn to bed around 7pm. Evelyn still sleeps from 7 to 7. Silas is different story. He can go about 4 hours straight at night. He’s gained a lot of weight. He’s over 13lbs and very strong.
Taylor is with us for the Holidays. You can find out just how her life is going by visiting her blog. She has a new look...and it looks good on her.
Evelyn continues to add to her vocabulary. Dog, more, hi, and hot are some of her favorite choice words. Although she gets them a little confused. For instance, hot refers not only to things that are hot in temperature but also those things that taste bad. Also, she points to Silas and says “Dog.” Her pronounciation is off a little too. She says dahawg for dog.
Anyway, we are all doing fine and wish everybody a Merry Christmas. We expect to be down south sometime in late January 2008.
With all this going on, Evelyn got the worst diaper rash I had ever seen. There were some very red irregular bumps and mild superficial bleeding. She screamed something awful when we changed her. We were worried. We had been keeping her clean. Found out that it had something to do with the bowel discharge as a result of her taking the antibiotics. The whole thing cleared up in about a week but we had to be diligent in keeping her bottom dry and re-applying diaper rash cream.
By this time Z’s cold is in full swing and she is on antibiotics. To make matters worst, Silas’s cold that had seemed to be leaving was starting to get worst. He's only three and half weeks old at this point. He gets over the first hurdle then a relapse because of the cold from Evelyn and Z. Double jeopardy. We've had to elevate Silas’s mattress to help with his nose drainage, apply regular saline/bulb cleaning and we added a humidifier to both of the kid’s rooms.
Evelyn ended up taking two rounds of antibiotics to clear-up her cold. She is her same old funny self now. Poor Silas struggled through the cold without any medicine. He's such a fighter. Dr says for him to “tough it out.” As long as he's eating they don't prescribe medicine. So now Silas is six weeks old. He's finally breathing better and just about completely over the cold. Still a lingering cough occasionally that sounds horrible but we recognize that as the tail end of a bad cold.
Whew!!!
So I started consulting again but this time on the side. I kept my day job. I have very little time. Z has the kids all day so I take over after 5pm. She goes to the gym and I usually put Evelyn to bed around 7pm. Evelyn still sleeps from 7 to 7. Silas is different story. He can go about 4 hours straight at night. He’s gained a lot of weight. He’s over 13lbs and very strong.
Taylor is with us for the Holidays. You can find out just how her life is going by visiting her blog. She has a new look...and it looks good on her.
Evelyn continues to add to her vocabulary. Dog, more, hi, and hot are some of her favorite choice words. Although she gets them a little confused. For instance, hot refers not only to things that are hot in temperature but also those things that taste bad. Also, she points to Silas and says “Dog.” Her pronounciation is off a little too. She says dahawg for dog.
Anyway, we are all doing fine and wish everybody a Merry Christmas. We expect to be down south sometime in late January 2008.
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
Life Goes On
All is well. We are getting into a routine with Silas. He was really fussy at first. Refusing to sleep and just all out miserable. But now that he's gained weight (10lbs), eats plenty (5oz a feeding) and on a schedule, he's more cooperative. We don't take him outside much. He has already had a cold. Thankfully, it wasn't too awful. He makes a lot of strange and loud noises at night. We had to move him out of our bed room into his crib in another room .. I think he has bad allergies (it runs in the family) He completely skipped the co-sleeper. Evelyn stayed in our room for 6 mos before we moved her out and when we did it was because WE made too much noise for her.
Evelyn continues to grow and learn. She is going to a nursery hour at the library on Saturdays. She tries to sing the songs and participate. She loves to read books or have them read to her. She's quite a handful as she gets into almost everything.
Evelyn continues to grow and learn. She is going to a nursery hour at the library on Saturdays. She tries to sing the songs and participate. She loves to read books or have them read to her. She's quite a handful as she gets into almost everything.
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Baby Boy is HERE!
Quick note...
We have a baby Boy!!!!
Mom and baby are fine and resting at hospital...I'm home with Evelyn.
Check Taylor's Blog (a.k.a. Rozies Universe) for all the details and future updates.
We have a baby Boy!!!!
Mom and baby are fine and resting at hospital...I'm home with Evelyn.
Check Taylor's Blog (a.k.a. Rozies Universe) for all the details and future updates.
Monday, November 5, 2007
Still Waiting
OKay...last night Z had really strong contractions but they tappered off after an hour or so.
Saturday, November 3, 2007
NEW POLL
OK so looks like Silas Frederick McAdams won!!! We still were thinking about adding John though... Let's take another poll.
Vote on the name John Silas Frederick McAdams
Vote on the name John Silas Frederick McAdams
OVER DUE
Day one of being overdue. Braxton hicks contraction last night. Nothing too intense. Some today but just uncomfortable. This week we will be working hard at doing things to try to stimulate labor. We had spicy shrimp yesterday and Bang Bang Chicken today from the Cheesecake factory. Yeah!! Z started long walks again. We are going to do all the things the drs suggested. We are getting the right signs but no decisive movement.
We all have colds. Evelyn gave it to us. She's been quite the snotty one for the last few days. She dares us to wipe her nose and howls if we spray saline up her nose. All in all, she's happy and playful and we are all fine.
We all have colds. Evelyn gave it to us. She's been quite the snotty one for the last few days. She dares us to wipe her nose and howls if we spray saline up her nose. All in all, she's happy and playful and we are all fine.
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